/int/ - International

Need some advice chinabros.
I’m stuck between going with my girlfriend to a new city and focusing on my career. She wants to move to Los Angeles, and I want to go with her. But I’ve just gotten hired at a very reputable mechanic shop where I live. There I can learn a lot and make an actual career. The decision isn’t due for about two months, but I’m still very vary. Her and I haven’t really talked about it since she’s in Macau right now. Just so many possibilities racing thru my head. What to decide? What to decide? Finding a job where she’s going isn’t an issue, I’m alright at what I do. Maybe I can try to convince her to stay here, but its unlikely. She got accepted into a good collage there, and I don’t want to interrupt her studies. Sometimes you want the best for a person, but its so hard to comply with what they want. Maybe I’m a simp for thinking like this? Some people would say blah-blah sigma grindset(focus on your career) blah-blah. But I don’t believe that. She isn’t some throwaway hoe I picked up of the street. We have been dating since 6th grade. What do frens? What do?